Some thoughts on Polyamory: the problem with white media & the changing culture of the Western world

Articles about Polyamory seem to be springing up everywhere at the moment. It's been dubbed "the future of love", "the future of family" and a "sexual revolution" by some news sources. Pretty strong claims in my opinion. Terms like "revolutionary" make me feel uneasy for two important reasons. The first reason is that the people … Continue reading Some thoughts on Polyamory: the problem with white media & the changing culture of the Western world

Coming out… again… and again… and again

My sexual identity is pansexual or queer (or both if we're being extra technical). These terms mean a lot of different things to different people. My mother, for example, comes from a generation where the term "queer" was an offensive slur meant to be mean about homosexuals. She was horrified to hear me use it … Continue reading Coming out… again… and again… and again

Polyamory and Marriage: what it means to me.

It's a month until my wedding day, and I'm very excited. I've got the dress, the cake, the food and the music all organised, every RSVP has been counted and my credit card is almost maxed out. Sounds like a standard wedding to me. Although my wedding day will be all white gown and bad … Continue reading Polyamory and Marriage: what it means to me.