Here is a space where I write personal and opinion pieces on things that interest me. This could be on sex, sexuality, feminism, relationships, mental health or just general advice I wish someone had given me. The pieces won’t necessarily be on the sex toy or adult fiction world.

I hope you find what I say interesting or at least informative. I speak only from my own experiences, and of how I see the world through my queer white cis-female able bodied eyes. I think it is always important to be aware of the position of whatever it is you’re reading, and to know I don’t speak for anyone but me. Enjoy reading!

You don’t need expensive gadgets to get pregnant! Cheap(er) alternatives and my frustration at companies profiting from people who are TTC.

Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 4: Treading Water and Emotional Turmoil

Gift Guide: My top Sex Toy picks for Valentine’s Day 2019

Lovehoney Lingerie: My top picks for Valentine’s day!

The Darkest Days: Love, Depression and Suicide

Fuck the Pain Away: A Post About Grief and Sex

Jezebella’s 2018 end of year round up!

Squirting: the pressure to perform and my lack of sexual pleasure

Labelled Lazy: Motivation and Depression

Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 3: Oh Shit, where did my sex drive go?

5 Sex Toys You Should Never Put up Your Butt

Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 2: Keeping Calm

That time I had sex out of politeness Content warning: non consensual sex acts

Gift Guide: My top Sex Toy picks for Valentine’s Day

How Mushroom Pills fixed my HPV and Cervix Abnormalities

Five Ways Sex Toy Companies Could Be Better in 2018

Comfortably (un)sexy selfies: a journey towards loving every part of myself

I’m not Sexy enough to be a Sex Blogger

Trying to Conceive with PCOS

Seasons, Cycles, and Sadness: my predictable depression Content warning: suicide

My (complicated) baby fever

Exactly What Happened at My First Cervical Screening

My review of SNAPSHOT: ethical queer porn thriller

Subtle Abuse Content warning: Abuse, domestic violence, sexual abuse.

Thoughts on first year of blogging

Six ways to Prevent Thrush

How I learnt to orgasm every time during sex with a man

Some thoughts on Polyamory: the problem with white media & the changing culture of the Western world

Eggs and Rabbits: Toys for a Sexy Easter!

Coming out… again… and again… and again

How To Get a Beach Body!

At Home STD testing: Chlamydia

My top Sex Toys 2016 & End of Year Reflection

My Top 10 Queer Tunes

How My Rape Affected My Sex Life Content warning: rape / sexual assault

6 Tips to Enjoy Sex while you’re on your Period!

Polyamory and Marriage: what it means to me.

Why I stopped shaving: hairy legs in a shaven world