Here is a space where I write personal and opinion pieces on things that interest me. This could be on sex, sexuality, feminism, relationships, mental health or just general advice I wish someone had given me. The pieces won’t necessarily be on the sex toy or adult fiction world.
I hope you find what I say interesting or at least informative. I speak only from my own experiences, and of how I see the world through my queer white cis-female able bodied eyes. I think it is always important to be aware of the position of whatever it is you’re reading, and to know I don’t speak for anyone but me. Enjoy reading!
Squirting: the pressure to perform and my lack of sexual pleasure
Labelled Lazy: Motivation and Depression
Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 3: Oh Shit, where did my sex drive go?
5 Sex Toys You Should Never Put up Your Butt
Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 2: Keeping Calm
That time I had sex out of politeness Content warning: non consensual sex acts
Gift Guide: My top Sex Toy picks for Valentine’s Day
How Mushroom Pills fixed my HPV and Cervix Abnormalities
Five Ways Sex Toy Companies Could Be Better in 2018
Comfortably (un)sexy selfies: a journey towards loving every part of myself
I’m not Sexy enough to be a Sex Blogger
Trying to Conceive with PCOS
Seasons, Cycles, and Sadness: my predictable depression Content warning: suicide
My (complicated) baby fever
Exactly What Happened at My First Cervical Screening
My review of SNAPSHOT: ethical queer porn thriller
Subtle Abuse Content warning: Abuse, domestic violence, sexual abuse.
Thoughts on first year of blogging
Six ways to Prevent Thrush
How I learnt to orgasm every time during sex with a man
Some thoughts on Polyamory: the problem with white media & the changing culture of the Western world
Eggs and Rabbits: Toys for a Sexy Easter!
Coming out… again… and again… and again
How To Get a Beach Body!
At Home STD testing: Chlamydia
My top Sex Toys 2016 & End of Year Reflection
My Top 10 Queer Tunes
How My Rape Affected My Sex Life Content warning: rape / sexual assault
6 Tips to Enjoy Sex while you’re on your Period!
Polyamory and Marriage: what it means to me.
Why I stopped shaving: hairy legs in a shaven world