Here is a space where I write personal and opinion pieces on things that interest me. This could be on sex, sexuality, feminism, relationships, mental health or just general advice I wish someone had given me. The pieces won’t necessarily be on the sex toy or adult fiction world.

I hope you find what I say interesting or at least informative. I speak only from my own experiences, and of how I see the world through my queer white cis-female able bodied eyes. I think it is always important to be aware of the position of whatever it is you’re reading, and to know I don’t speak for anyone but me. Enjoy reading!

Gift Guide: My top Sex Toy picks for Valentine’s Day 2019

Lovehoney Lingerie: My top picks for Valentine’s day!

The Darkest Days: Love, Depression and Suicide

Fuck the Pain Away: A Post About Grief and Sex

Jezebella’s 2018 end of year round up!

Squirting: the pressure to perform and my lack of sexual pleasure

Labelled Lazy: Motivation and Depression

Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 3: Oh Shit, where did my sex drive go?

5 Sex Toys You Should Never Put up Your Butt

Trying to Conceive with PCOS Take 2: Keeping Calm

That time I had sex out of politeness Content warning: non consensual sex acts

Gift Guide: My top Sex Toy picks for Valentine’s Day

How Mushroom Pills fixed my HPV and Cervix Abnormalities

Five Ways Sex Toy Companies Could Be Better in 2018

Comfortably (un)sexy selfies: a journey towards loving every part of myself

I’m not Sexy enough to be a Sex Blogger

Trying to Conceive with PCOS

Seasons, Cycles, and Sadness: my predictable depression Content warning: suicide

My (complicated) baby fever

Exactly What Happened at My First Cervical Screening

My review of SNAPSHOT: ethical queer porn thriller

Subtle Abuse Content warning: Abuse, domestic violence, sexual abuse.

Thoughts on first year of blogging

Six ways to Prevent Thrush

How I learnt to orgasm every time during sex with a man

Some thoughts on Polyamory: the problem with white media & the changing culture of the Western world

Eggs and Rabbits: Toys for a Sexy Easter!

Coming out… again… and again… and again

How To Get a Beach Body!

At Home STD testing: Chlamydia

My top Sex Toys 2016 & End of Year Reflection

My Top 10 Queer Tunes

How My Rape Affected My Sex Life Content warning: rape / sexual assault

6 Tips to Enjoy Sex while you’re on your Period!

Polyamory and Marriage: what it means to me.

Why I stopped shaving: hairy legs in a shaven world