Labelled Lazy: Motivation and Depression

I can't remember a time when I was not told I am lazy. When I was about 14 a friend stated to me "you're the laziest person I know". I can't remember what sparked this remark, perhaps I didn't want to go with her to a social event, perhaps I didn't want to play a … Continue reading Labelled Lazy: Motivation and Depression

Share Our Shit Saturday 24th Feb 2018 #SOSS: The Mental Health Addition

It's Saturday again and time for me to share some fantastic sex positive content from the sex blogging community. I've been struggling with my mental health for a while now, and as we're nearing the end of winter I know so many of you are struggling too. I want to show you that you are … Continue reading Share Our Shit Saturday 24th Feb 2018 #SOSS: The Mental Health Addition

Seasons, Cycles, and Sadness: my predictable depression

Trigger warning! This post discusses depression and includes details of attempted suicide that some readers may find triggering. Please do not read if you think it will affect you.   It's that time of year again. The clocks go back, the nights get darker and darker, and my brain starts to withdraw into itself. My motivation … Continue reading Seasons, Cycles, and Sadness: my predictable depression

My (complicated) baby fever

This post is going to be more personal than opinion. It's just something I'm working through right now. I don't often hear people's reasoning to have children. I hear the reasons someone would not like to have children, but choosing to have children often goes unquestioned. You are meant to want to have children, in society's … Continue reading My (complicated) baby fever