Coming out… again… and again… and again

My sexual identity is pansexual or queer (or both if we're being extra technical). These terms mean a lot of different things to different people. My mother, for example, comes from a generation where the term "queer" was an offensive slur meant to be mean about homosexuals. She was horrified to hear me use it … Continue reading Coming out… again… and again… and again

My Top 10 Queer Tunes

Music, along with sex, has been an important factor in my life. It influenced my politics and makes me feel like I'm not alone when I'm having a dark day, or even a good day. It comforts me to know someone more talented than me has managed to put into words, and then into music, … Continue reading My Top 10 Queer Tunes